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Street harassment is not a compliment.

This! There is a HUGE difference between a genuine compliment and the shit idiots say to you in the street.






Portraits taken at The 2013 ESSENCE Black Women In Hollywood Luncheon at the Beverly Hills Hotel in California.





we are too beautiful.


yes. yes. yes. yes. yes. yes. yes. yes. yes. 


I know a lot of times when a man and a woman who’s been intimate argues the woman is likely to throw out that the man’s dick is little or his sex is whack. I think that’s cunty…don’t be that girl. Even if what you’re saying is true, if you laid down with him more than once then who you have to blame but yourself for subjecting your precious jewel to that fuckery? 

But what I don’t like is when a man acts as if he’s done a woman a favor by fucking her. Dick is a beautiful thing but Pussy is power and will always be. So don’t dare disrespect the anointed vulva. Honestly when you disregard the very same thing someone pushed you out of…kiddie gloves r off

I remember last year I was fooling with this brotha and  during an argument in so many words he said he did me a favor by fucking me. 

MAJOR MISTAKE. Not only did I feel obligated to gut check him because I’m a woman and I don’t play that I’ve also been deading niggas since 98 with my sarcasm, and wit. I didn’t call his dick small because it wasn’t. I didn’t crack on his chicken legs or when he winced like a bitch because the head was too fiya… 

"Favor? Man, I’ve had stomach aches better than your dick…don’t play yourself." 

And I was absolutely right when I think about it. Yes i came from having sex with him but he never touched my soul in any way. for you chillren who know nan about soul fucking…you betta ask somebody. he was selfish. and i was selfless. the sex was under the bridge…he came for me. i sent for his black ass. 

cosmetic surgeons couldn’t have fixed his face because that shit was on the ground, around the corner and den some. don’t know how he’s doing, don’t care. but something tells me he chooses his battles wisely after that war of words with me. 







Bus seats in Finland - for the unsocial people, like me.

Rule number one in Finnish public transport culture: Don’t sit next to anyone. Unless the seats are like this.

In every other cases fill the spots from window seats. Then standing up seats. If the bus gets crowded sit next to someone but sit as far as possible from the other person and turn your head to look to the completely different direction. Don’t say a word. 

And if you’re the one sitting next to window pray all the gods that the other person leaves before you, because otherwise you’d have to speak to him/her. Usually it’s something like “Umm..ileavenow”. Remember, no sorries or smiles. Just say it as low and fast as possible without making any eye contact. 

legit advise for people visiting finland. that “ileavenow” is “mä jään täs” in finnish. it’s okay if you don’t pronounce it perfectly right because the only reason someone would talk to strangers in public transport is to ask them to move, so they will get the hint. 

BUT! usually just things like putting your phone away and rustling your bag and looking like you are about to leave will do the trick. no need for words.

….and this is how you wait for a bus in finland:


Reblogging because of that picture. So true. And familiar.

This is the most bizarre thing I’ve ever seen…what the actual fuck. It almost seems like a joke but I feel like it’s actually serious????

In Finland strangers try to stay the fuck out of your personal space? I’M MOVING TO FINLAND.





Do we really have to take this?

A friend of mine was moving from her apartment. She asked me to look after some of her things. I agreed and not too long after she asked if her daughter Frances can come pick it up. I agreed and she came over with her boyfriend, who was also the father of her baby. I helped them carry the stuff down to the car, and during the whole visit exchanged possibly 10 words. 

Next day I received these texts. I had to created a fiancee I didn’t really have in order for him to stop.

I never told my friend what her daughter’s boyfriend did. Now they are expecting a second child, so as you all see, there was no break up. 

So Do we women really have to take this kind of attitude?

Do we have to invent things and people in order to be left alone.

I don’t want to have my titties banged.

I am not an easy lay.

I don’t deserve this.

Why do I go from being called “cute” “smart” and “pretty” in the beginning of the conversation, to “fatty” “bitch” and “ugly” in the end?

Reblog if you are against sexual harassment.

how do people like this actually exist what the fuck

The only thing that made him back off was the idea that you already had another man in your life.

The only thing that made him back off was the idea that you already had another man that owned you.

This makes me so angry! His fucking sense of entitlement. His lack of boundaries! This is so fucking disgusting.

Tagged as: gross,

Tagged as: lol,



White People: - “Black people are always pulling the race card!”

What the actual fuck.


Vanessa Paradis and Lily-Rose / STORQ